Because I am having so much fun with my 'Ex', and she is disturbingly fertile, I am considering getting a vasectomy so we do not have to use condoms. I am wondering what some of the other guys (and perhaps gals) in NN land have experienced with Vasectomies.
Pain, Discomfort, Performance issues??
For any of these items, how bad and how long and when did you have the surgery?
Thanks in advance for your input

Watched It's Complicated (the movie) last night and realized that truth is stranger than fiction. (read previous blogs to understand) I am living parts of that movie. Then after the movie, the Wife asks if I ever think about The Ex in that way **** Had to bite my tongue!!! If she only knew .......

I am wondering how many of you keep a record (outside of your NN blog) of when you have sex and with whom? The Ex used to when she was cheating on me (part of why we got divorced) and I now do both on NN and in coded notes in my Outlook calendar.
I started with the Outlook thing when I was curious if sex with The Wife was a rare and uninspired as I thought it was and I pretty quickly figured out that I was right. I use my NN blog to track (mainly) Ex Sex, with a little other info thrown in.
Just wondering ......

late update ..................
Tuesday, The Wife had to work so I blew off a business meeting and The Ex came over. As with last week, we showered together and then went to bed. Nothing quite as explosive as the last time, I did eat her for about 15 minutes (I am actually TRYING to keep an eye on the clock) this time, as I was eating her she kept saying that she needed to scream but was trying to be quiet and I kept telling her to go ahead and scream as that is part of her reaction that excites me. After she came (with a great scream), I got up and pulled on my condom and fucked her for about 8 or 10 minutes (thank heavens I had masturbated earlier). Had a great orgasm in her and the played with her pussy for a few minutes. I really wanted to ask that we give Anal a shot, but we were concerned that The Wife might be getting home from work and although it is not that unusual for The Ex to be around the house, if we were 'going at it' there WOULD be trouble. (obviously The Wife does not know that we are fucking).

Shortly after I finished my previous blog, I went back to my bedroom to shower and get myself ready for the day. I had been watching CBS Sunday Morning at my desk so I put it on in the Bedroom and sat down on the bed to watch. Next thing I know The Wife is cuddling up to me after about 30 minutes of her 'rubbing' on me we both get naked and I move to go down on her and I realize that she really does not taste so good (not a nice thing to say?) As much as I enjoy going down on a woman, I decided that it would not happen this time. We keep His and Hers lube in the drawer, so I reached in a got that and started to rub her pussy with the lube for a few minutes while she played with my dick. After about 5 or 10 minutes of this I was getting bored and got up, out the 'His' lube on myself and started fucking her. We went at it for a little over 5 minutes and she started cumming which set me off. All in all, not too bad, just not as good as I would hope for.
This has been an unusual week, Fucked The Wife twice within 8 days and the Ex once. Trying to get with The Ex tomorrow (Tuesday) for a little more action.

As planned, The Ex came over on Thursday for two reasons, to do a load or two of laundry (her washer is broken) and so we could fuck. She starts the laundry and says let's get in the shower together and then we can do 'whatever'. Ok, I used to really enjoy showering with her as she likes to have me wash her (don't think The Wife has ever let me do that in over 14 years). We showered and dried off then laid down in bed and I immediately went down on her for about 15 or 20 minutes and boy did she cum hard, she said she could feel her pulse in her pussy! I gave her a moment to rest then pulled on my condom and entered her always tight pussy. We fucked for a bit and I came hard. When I pulled out I looked at her spread legs and saw her cum matted in the hairs of her pussy. Now, I have know and slept with this woman for about 30 years, and I do not think she has ever cum that much (as she cleaned herself up, she even said something similar). I am really hoping for a repeat performance this coming week and will try so hard to get some pictures. She keeps saying that she wants me to do 'whatever I want' with her, so maybe next time I will go for Anal which we used to do on an occasional basis.

Yesterday the Ex came over for a short visit and I thought we might get a couple minutes to fuck so I put a rubber in my pocket. Well, to make a long story short, no such luck. After she was gone, I had to go out and run a few errands including renewing the tags on my truck. Get to the DMV and go to pay for the tags and what comes out of my pocket ... the condom! oops!! Quickly tucked it back in my pocket and hoped no one noticed what it was. Finished errands and went home where I had to put it away in my hiding place so The Wife would not find it (since she is on the pill). Busy day today, but hoping to get with The Ex tomorrow if we do manage to get together, I will try to get more pics.

Went to visit my folks for the weekend. Overall it was much better than I expected (we don't usually get along). As usual, I sort of hoped that The Wife and I would have sex a few times, but she sort of grudgingly agreed to only one time Friday morning just after we arrived and complained that I had forgotten the lube. I offered to go get some from the local drugstore on the next day but she said not to bother. Oh well, once is better than not at all, and I still sort of enjoy it more with The Ex anyway (even though I have to use a condom with her). Hope to get together with The Ex later today for business and maybe a little 'fun'

Gave her a call and let her know that The Wife was gone for a few hours so we could get together. She came over and just wanted to 'talk' I was like, I am going out of town and you were horny as hell two days ago now why don't we go upstairs and fuck. she was nervous about Wife getting home, then Wife called and said about 45 minutes or so. We went up and I gave her a good hard fuck, but she did not cum, so I went down on her and she came HARD like she always does when I am eating her and playing with her nipples (DAMN I lover her hard, little nipples). After, we both washed up and she went home. definitely too short a time, but anything is better than nothing!
(For those of you who read my previous entry, she was wearing some of the new undies that I bought her and she said they were very comfortable)

Well, this is not what I would normally blog about, but what the Hell ...
Met the Ex for breakfast on Saturday morning and had a nice talk, she said that she really wants to get together for a good fuck SOON. I had to run by Target to get some underwear for myself, so we bought her some nice sexxy sets and she promised to wear them for me soon. I requested that she not wear them for too long when we are together. Hopefully we will get a little time together early this week.