TNBuilder's Blog - page 16

Got home after working a private event and when we went to bed got the same response as the previous night - nothing doing. For those wondering, I post this here so I have a record of the effort that I make so I do not end up thinking it is all in my mind.

Went to bed at pretty much regular time and figured since it is Friday and The Wife does not have to work, maybe I can get her to play around a bit. We get in bed and she is complaining that it is too warm so I question (while I am lightly stroking her pussy) if she remembered to turn on the ac in the bedroom she says she is not sure so I get up to check and as i get back in bed, I give her nipples s quick suck thru her shirt. Her response is that I am 'impossible' and that she is tired. I keep trying to play with her a bit and she just goes to sleep. Nothing to really say except frustrated.

The Wife now goes into her office on Thursdays so The Ex and I try to at least shower together and when time permits, we have a good fuck which we did last Thursday. On Friday, I had to deliver my Travel Trailer to a renter 2 hours away and The Wife rode along with me - the delivery was rough, got lost and ended up taking almost 6 hours for what should have been a 4 hour gig. When we got home we sat and watched the end of the news and went to bed where I was surprised that we had a decent fuck - not long, but not bad either. On Saturday she did come to bed topless which I appreciated but I was too worn out to take advantage of. I am hoping that perhaps we will fuck again tonight - time will tell, I guess.

The Ex came over today to shower and after we had a really nice fuck! Our routine is pretty 'standard' I suck her tits, then eat her to an orgasm and fuck her till she cums again and the I cum in her. For those who read my updates, the last two tries were not so successful in that although she got hers, she was not able to accommodate me - it hurt her - neither of us are sure why and it frustrated her almost as much as it did me. This time I made sure to 'slobber' on her as I was eating her so I slid in with little resistance and it was incredible!

Friday when we went to bed, I thought that since it has been most of a month, perhaps we might have sex so I started to stroke her pussy and play with her tits / kiss her neck etc ... her answer is simply Too Tired and she went to sleep within seconds of me stopping. Ok - long day so I figured try again on Saturday - I did sort of but again nothing happening. Sunday morning rolls around and when she gets up she is complaining about getting her period. This feels like a throwback to before we went to counseling 5 years ago when she seemed to constantly have her period to avoid sex. who knows......

Am I the only one wondering why this member has been on cam for over 33 days at this point?

It was not a bad 2 nights. I did eat her to a couple of incredible orgasms but it has been so long since had sex, that she was too tight for me to fuck. The second night, I brought some lube with me so I did get in, but it was too uncomfortable for her. It was fun, but would have been better if we had actually fucked. It was also a good reminder of why we are not married anymore - lol

It should be an interesting 2 days. I have a travel trailer that we rent out and it has been rented by a movie company for the next 2 days - the interesting part is that I have to be there super early in the morning and then have to move it at night to a new location which means that I am going to overnight in it as well since they are located about an hour from home. The Ex suggested that she join me for this since The Wife does not want to go - who am I to say no to dome potentially good sex? So this afternoon, off we go plus she is working with me both days as well. I think she needs this slight 'break' as well as it has been a long time since she got out of town.
Hopefully I will have a positive update this weekend.

different thoughts than the past two updates ....
A few weeks ago The Wife was not feeling well and decided to not 'go to work' (in quotes since she works from home right now) since she knows that I am usually in my office across the house in the morning she texted me with this information - ok, no problem. Later we were talking about this and I have asked her for many years since I cannot 'sleep in' as she does to text me when she gets up and I will join her for some morning fun but she never has. I said why can she text me that she is not feeling well, but not to come back to bed? Her response was totally noncommittal but she said I had a point. I do not expect things on that issue to change, but, well, whatever I guess.
Just needed to get this off my chest.

We were on vacation (sort of - visiting my mom) a week ago and staying in a hotel. After a long drive of about 14 hours split over a day and a half we had dinner with family and went back to the hotel to rest. I usually get up early out of habit but on this particular Saturday I was so worn out that I slept in. At some point The Wife woke up and rolled over to me to start playing. We messed around for about 30 minutes just rubbing on each other and me sucking her tits and then ended up fucking and sucking for about another hour. Pretty darn good actually. fast forward to the following Friday (4 days ago) and I decided to massage her legs while we were watching TV and continued when we went to bed which led to some surprisingly good, if somewhat 'vanilla' sex - the next morning she was complaining about the bruises on her head from our iron headboard which has only happened a few times.
On both occasions, I know that she came at least once maybe twice. All in all, a surprisingly good 10 day period.