Well, last night The Ex came over (as usual when The Wife has been gone) and quite late put her kid to sleep. Finally, about 11:30 we went out to the hot tub to relax. Only problem was that I had just adjusted the chemicals and the chlorine was a bit strong.
Anyway, we sat looking up at the stars and having a relaxing time sharing a glass of wine. While we were sitting, I was stroking her body, playing with the Right nipple and occasionally slipping my hand down to her pussy. After about 30 minutes, she turned and I could not help myself as I bent down to suck on her nipple which was like turning on a switch with her. I sucked on one then the other for a few minutes before she moved herself so I could rub my dick around her pussy while continuing to suck on her tits. Unfortunately, I am taller than her and fucking while still sucking on her tits was difficult (I guess I am not a teenager anymore) After a bit she got frustrated and we got out and moved up to my bed where I started sucking on her nipples again but she was impatient and requested that I move south, I moved down to start sucking on her pussy and she was absolutely DRIPPING! I ate her for about 10 minutes until her body stiffened as she came and then moved up to fuck her. I had already put on a condom so there was no delay, she felt wonderful, but I knew that I would not cum with the condom on. I pulled out and said 'don't worry I will not cum in you' and started back to fuck her good for a few minuted before I pulled out and came on her stomach.
We lay in bed for a few minutes (by this time is was about 1:00 AM and I got her to go down to her kid she there would not be a question of where she had slept.
It is always a bit of a question if things are going to be as planned with her, but it is always worth it.

Well, It is Friday night and it has been almost 2 weeks since The Wife went on her vacation. The Ex has been hanging around but we only fucked one time because she has been 'fluish'. Well, tonight she said to heat up , the hot tub and when her kid is asleep perhaps we will get in the hot tub and fool around which will lead to fucking for sure. I would be so happy if we could fuck 2 or 3 times before The Wife returns but that may be asking too much.
We will see, she DOES greatly enjoy sex with me and if she feels well, hopefully we can get in a few good fucks before things change. Meanwhile, The Wife is complaining about how much she misses me but I doubt that she will express that 'love' in a sexual way on her return.

Well, This weekend, I had another Bird Show to be at and I had expected that The Ex would join me. I was going to get a suite type hotel room so her kid could sleep alone and we could have some fun times but she ended up having to work so cold not join me. Since I was alone, I got a fairly cheap motel room and spent the 2 nights alone (with NN for company). Sort of thought about heading to a bar and seeing if I could pick up some 'company', but that has never really been my scene. Heading back home tonight and hoping that The Ex is feeling better (she has been a bit Fluie) so we can have a bit more sex before The Wife returns. I was really hoping to make up for some lost time over the 2 1/2 weeks that we had together but so far only fucked one time.
Oh well, that is more than The Wife and I would have.
Gonna be interesting when she returns to see if she is 'relaxed' and that somehow translates into more sex. I have my doubts, but we will see.

Yesterday, I sent The Wife off on a trip with her mom for almost 3 weeks. Went driving for UBER for a few hours, then came home and sat with my birds for a while before going out to dinner with The Ex. Came home from dinner, she showered and we went upstairs and had a nice fuck. Spent about 45 minutes, started with cuddling and moved onto me eating her to her 'usual' screaming orgasm followed by me fucking her to the next one. When done, she mentioned that her pussy was a bit sore - first blaming it on lack of sexual activity but then realizing that it was quite probably due to my new, growing mustache. Luckily, she will not let that stop her/us as she wants a repeat performance as soon as possible.
Went out to drive for UBER again from 10:30 - 4:00, came home and went to sleep but was woken up by sharp pain in my jaw. I have had ongoing dental issues and apparently the infection that we thought was gone is not quite so. I am back on major pain killers and waiting on the DR to call me back.

Now, with a title like that, you would be expecting some HOT SEX (probably not so much if you know my situation), welll - you would be wrong.
I spent the past 4 days on a trip with my Oldest daughter (and her kids) and youngest son visiting with my Mom. I left mid day on Thursday and returned late last night.
The Wife picked me and my son up from the airport, we dropped him off at his place and then went home. I sort of expected - since she was saying how much she missed me all weekend - that maybe she was going to have 'her' bed fixed up where we could have a night of cuddling and such but it was covered (except for her space) with clean laundry. We sat and watched TV for a bit when we got home and then both went to our separate beds (She did put fresh sheets on mine).
Now, mind you, this coming Saturday she leaves for a 3 week trip with her mom. I am curious if we will have any sexual activity before her departure and somewhat torn if I want it or not.
I am hoping to spend a few nights with The Ex while she is gone and am seriously looking for a hookup or two during that time - maybe something that will become a long term FWB if I am lucky.

According to a survey that I recently saw, the 'average' couple has sex on average of 85 times a year. that is about 1.6 times per week. Considering that I have two ladies in my life, you would think I would get it at least that much, but - NO - I am lucky to get it 4 or 5 times per year from The Wife and now that The Ex is working full time (which is ultimately a good thing) our sex life had pretty much come to a screeching halt.
All that being said, The Wife is going on a trip with her mom for 3 weeks soon and I am hoping that it will mean a - brief - uptick in my sex life.

Well, a few weeks ago, I purchased a new set of sheets at a discount store for 'my' (queen size) bed. Sunday evening I stripped my bed and went to put the new sheets on only to find that although they were labeled as Queen size, they were, in fact, King size. I sort of hoped that The Wife might then suggest that I sleep with her until my sheets were washed, but nope, 2 days and that did not happen. We are bowling tonight and I am sort of thinking that I may suggest that I not sleep on the bed without sheets for a 3rd night. It would not be a big deal except that she has so much crap on the bed that I cannot sleep there without her clearing things up.
I am, truthfully tired of going without and, well, we will see. I guess 'stay tuned for further developments' would be appropriate.

Was interesting ...
First The Wife suggests that since it is supposed to rain that perhaps we will hot tub in the rain - wellll ok I will not argue. Then while I am fixing breakfast for our birds, she goes into 'her' bedroom (just off of the kitchen) and starts clearing off the bed. My first thought is 'oh, she is getting it cleared up so we can sleep together tonight' - nope - she put the sheets in the laundry, now that does not mean that we might not sleep together (although I doubt it) but I have learned to never give up hope.

Yesterday (by planning ahead) we spent some time in the Hot Tub late in the day. It was a little bit warmer than I had intended but not quite to the point of add vegetables and chicken stock (lol). For some reason, I keep thinking that we will get in the Hot Tub and she will actually get frisky. Well, not so much, I tried unsuccessfully a few times to kiss her and barely got a peck on the lips so you can imagine that, of course nothing else happened and since we had to take down a 'strategic' tree, I am not really comfortable without swim trunks.
She had another bad day at work today so I will have to be the comforting husband tonight no matter how frustrated I feel about life. Oh, well, that is what I do well I guess.
Hope others are having a better time than I am.

We went out with our friends to sit on the Memphis bluffs and listen to the Journey concert (without spending $100 per person for tickets). Before dinner we went to have dinner at a new German restaurant which was an incredible disappointment - poor food and poor attitude from the owner. After the dinner we went on downtown and found a good place to sit, drink some canned cocktails and enjoy the music. We had a nice time and got home a bit after 11 PM. I turned off the lights and covered up our birds and thought that perhaps I might 'get some' since she had been drinking and was relaxed so while she went to the bathroom, I got undressed and closed the bedroom door. She came out of the bathroom and was like 'What is going on here!?' I said that I thought that I would sleep with her tonight. Her response - ' Be sure not to wake me up in the morning' - yep that is sexxy! We both turned to our side of the bed and went to sleep until she started to snore loudly about 3 AM so I went upstairs to try to sleep again. Oh well, I tried!