The Wife and I are on vacation as planned and visiting my Mom, Sister and Nephew. As usual, we stay in a separate 'cottage' on my parents property due to limited room in the house (the cottage we stay in was on the property when my dad purchased it and they stayed in it while they built the main house and kept it for guest overflow). We got up here Wednesday night and stayed in a hotel. I tried to get things started, but she went straight to sleep, tried again Thursday,and while she did not say NO, there was no reaction. Last night (Friday) I decided to stop 'beating around the bush' and straight out told her I wanted sex. Once again, she did not say NO, but made it clear that it was not the time. I asked her what time I cold wake her in the AM for sex and never got an answer so I got up at my usual time, went and brushed my teeth and shaved. Now here I am sitting on my computer blogging instead of fucking. I guess in a few minutes, I will go in and try to wake her to see what happens. Only one more day till we fly home and then back to 'normal'. We did have an interesting discussion at dinner last night where it was indicated that extra-marital-sex was not a total deal breaker if the rest of the relationship was strong so maybe that is something I really do need to explore with her. (oddly enough this was a discussion with my mom, Wife and daughter about my sister and her now ex husband)
Hope everyone is having a more sexual weekend than I!

The Wife is now working a 'real' job again and is on mandatory overtime of at least 10 hours per week since she is hourly that is a good thing so a bit of additional money. The Ex is working her regular job and now working for me 2 or 3 evenings a week as well. I got my food truck (trailer) and will finally start making money with it hopefully next week.
No sex other than with myself since the 22nd (last blog) and although The Wife and I are traveling next week, I will be surprised if anything happens.
Hopefully work starts to go well and will distract me from feeling frustrated or even maybe The Wife will be happy and more relaxed and want sex ... unlikely, but who knows?

Last night I chose to offer to sleep with The Wife and she accepted but made it clear that she was too tired for sex. As usual, I got up early in the morning and knew not to wake her so I went upstairs and showered, shaved , groomed, etc. Went back down and made coffee then climbed in bed with her. She woke up with minimal complaints (about 7:30 at this point) and spent the next hour talking about everything and nothing. FInally I ran out of patience and just made it clear that I wanted to fuck so after a bit I did just go under the covers and went down on her. I was hoping for some reaction , but there was little. At one point, I stopped and asked her if I should turn off the TV so she could concentrate on what I was doing! She said no, that is felt 'good'. I ate her for about 15 - 20 minutes with minimal reaction from her and then decided that if she would not react, I would just go ahead and fuck her. I did and while doing so she did have a pretty good orgasm. Afterwards I felt like why did I bother, she does not really want it and as much as I prefer to cum while fucking, I find it hard to get really excited when she obviously does not care if we do or not. At least with The Ex, she may be distracted, but when we are fucking, that is what she wants to be doing and she lets me know that she is enjoying the experience during the entire thing.

So depressed today! Just having a really rough day and not a happy camper. Would some please come and have hot sweaty sex with me to make me feel better!
Actually the day started out good just ended on a sour note.

Well, the surgery went well, and I did not say anything that I regret while under sedation (whew!) I do not remember Friday except for a bit of the morning and then I sort of remember a bit of Saturday. Since I was not allowed to drive and did not feel like going out on Saturday, I spent time searching CL for a food trailer and we ended up taking a 3 1/2 hour drive to check one out today (total of almost 8 hours) but ended up not not getting it. On the way home I suggested a few times to The Wife that we might have sex tonight and she pretty much blew me off each time. Ended up we had dinner out and came home at which time she fell asleep on the sofa so after I watched a bit of TV, I covered up our birds and we went to bed - her in her room and me upstairs.
I hope everyone had a great and sexxy weekend.

Well, it really did snow here. Actually, there are about 2 inches of ice covered by a few inches of snow so the driving is pretty treacherous. This morning I took The Wife to work since I have a 4x4 and then called The Ex on my way home thinking perhaps someone could watch her kid and she and I could have some time to fuck since I have no work today. Well, so far no luck, she asked me to drive her around to a few stops with the kid in tow which I did. I am still hoping that we will fuck before I have to pick up The Wife this afternoon, but I am not holding my breath.
Having pretty major oral surgery tomorrow so I will probably be out of touch for a few days. I am a bit nervous about it, but the end result will be that I have better oral health for many years to come. They are starting an implant and doing 3 crowns all at once. 2 more appointments later this year and hopefully the dental issues are done for a while.

So I got to wondering how many times I had actually had some sort of sex with The Wife last year and it turns out it was 5 times - pretty disappointing. I did not count times with The Ex, but I suspect it is probably about double that. Really wish I could get more pussy!

Well, Friday the weather was horrible and the restaurant that we had intended going to was closed so we ended up at Olive Garden. Nice dinner and then to the hotel and directly to sleep. Got up early and went to our event. Saturday evening had a decent dinner and back to the hotel where I tried to get her 'going' messed around bit and even rubbed on her pussy a bit but she never made it easy and I finally just gave up, turned over and went to sleep. Got up early and showered while she was still sleeping. Now we are back home and sleeping in separate rooms as usual.

The Wife and I are going out of town and I booked a room at a mid range hotel, so that should be ok, planned for a very nice dinner on Friday night at a restaurant that I tried by myself last year. All of that being planned with absolutely no realistic expectation of getting laid. Just trying to treat The Wife properly and make it a reasonably relaxing weekend. Well, we will see........

So we got some pretty extreme winter weather here (for this part of the country) and I did not have to go into work until early afternoon, so a 'lazy' morning. I made coffee and went in to wake The Wife. After talking a bit, I undressed and climbed in bed with her hoping for a bit if sex. Fooled around a bit trying to get her started but nothing really was happening. I mentioned that there was coffee and she is like 'ok I am getting out if bed if there is coffee' my response was to the effect of' oh, so coffee is more important than sex with me?' so she starts to get back in bed but I say forget it and get out myself. Cannot really believe that I turned down the opportunity for sex, but it was too obvious that it was not a priority for her anyway and if we are having sex, I want to feel that she wants it as well.