TNBuilder
Gift PremiumI live a busy life but would like an occasional discreet encounter. Please do not send me a friend request if you do not have a picture posted. I am really more interested in having Ladies than Men (unless you give me a good reason). Good news is that I got 'snipped' a few years ago so I can go bareback without any worries of getting my lover pregnant. Makes things so much more enjoyable for both of us.
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Monday, November 3, 2014, 2:52:43 PM- A weekend away | ||
Now, with a title like that, you would be expecting some HOT SEX (probably not so much if you know my situation), welll - you would be wrong. I spent the past 4 days on a trip with my Oldest daughter (and her kids) and youngest son visiting with my Mom. I left mid day on Thursday and returned late last night. The Wife picked me and my son up from the airport, we dropped him off at his place and then went home. I sort of expected - since she was saying how much she missed me all weekend - that maybe she was going to have 'her' bed fixed up where we could have a night of cuddling and such but it was covered (except for her space) with clean laundry. We sat and watched TV for a bit when we got home and then both went to our separate beds (She did put fresh sheets on mine). Now, mind you, this coming Saturday she leaves for a 3 week trip with her mom. I am curious if we will have any sexual activity before her departure and somewhat torn if I want it or not. I am hoping to spend a few nights with The Ex while she is gone and am seriously looking for a hookup or two during that time - maybe something that will become a long term FWB if I am lucky. | ||
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Monday, October 27, 2014, 6:29:29 PM- 85 is a depressing number | ||
According to a survey that I recently saw, the 'average' couple has sex on average of 85 times a year. that is about 1.6 times per week. Considering that I have two ladies in my life, you would think I would get it at least that much, but - NO - I am lucky to get it 4 or 5 times per year from The Wife and now that The Ex is working full time (which is ultimately a good thing) our sex life had pretty much come to a screeching halt. All that being said, The Wife is going on a trip with her mom for 3 weeks soon and I am hoping that it will mean a - brief - uptick in my sex life. | ||
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Tuesday, October 21, 2014, 10:12:54 PM- New sheets | ||||||
Well, a few weeks ago, I purchased a new set of sheets at a discount store for 'my' (queen size) bed. Sunday evening I stripped my bed and went to put the new sheets on only to find that although they were labeled as Queen size, they were, in fact, King size. I sort of hoped that The Wife might then suggest that I sleep with her until my sheets were washed, but nope, 2 days and that did not happen. We are bowling tonight and I am sort of thinking that I may suggest that I not sleep on the bed without sheets for a 3rd night. It would not be a big deal except that she has so much crap on the bed that I cannot sleep there without her clearing things up. I am, truthfully tired of going without and, well, we will see. I guess 'stay tuned for further developments' would be appropriate. | ||||||
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Friday, October 10, 2014, 7:51:28 PM- This morning | ||
Was interesting ... First The Wife suggests that since it is supposed to rain that perhaps we will hot tub in the rain - wellll ok I will not argue. Then while I am fixing breakfast for our birds, she goes into 'her' bedroom (just off of the kitchen) and starts clearing off the bed. My first thought is 'oh, she is getting it cleared up so we can sleep together tonight' - nope - she put the sheets in the laundry, now that does not mean that we might not sleep together (although I doubt it) but I have learned to never give up hope. | ||
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Monday, October 6, 2014, 11:03:13 PM- Hot Tub | ||||||
Yesterday (by planning ahead) we spent some time in the Hot Tub late in the day. It was a little bit warmer than I had intended but not quite to the point of add vegetables and chicken stock (lol). For some reason, I keep thinking that we will get in the Hot Tub and she will actually get frisky. Well, not so much, I tried unsuccessfully a few times to kiss her and barely got a peck on the lips so you can imagine that, of course nothing else happened and since we had to take down a 'strategic' tree, I am not really comfortable without swim trunks. She had another bad day at work today so I will have to be the comforting husband tonight no matter how frustrated I feel about life. Oh, well, that is what I do well I guess. Hope others are having a better time than I am. | ||||||
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Monday, September 15, 2014, 3:04:20 PM- Saturday night | ||
We went out with our friends to sit on the Memphis bluffs and listen to the Journey concert (without spending $100 per person for tickets). Before dinner we went to have dinner at a new German restaurant which was an incredible disappointment - poor food and poor attitude from the owner. After the dinner we went on downtown and found a good place to sit, drink some canned cocktails and enjoy the music. We had a nice time and got home a bit after 11 PM. I turned off the lights and covered up our birds and thought that perhaps I might 'get some' since she had been drinking and was relaxed so while she went to the bathroom, I got undressed and closed the bedroom door. She came out of the bathroom and was like 'What is going on here!?' I said that I thought that I would sleep with her tonight. Her response - ' Be sure not to wake me up in the morning' - yep that is sexxy! We both turned to our side of the bed and went to sleep until she started to snore loudly about 3 AM so I went upstairs to try to sleep again. Oh well, I tried! | ||
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Monday, September 8, 2014, 2:33:13 AM- The Wife Returns | ||
Well, last night her flight arrived about 10:20. I met her at Luggage pick up and asked if she wanted to grab dinner which she declined - she said very tired and just wanted to go to sleep so home we went. I had washed the sheets for 'my bed' so slept with her. As we got into bed, she said 'just letting you know, nothing happening tonight as I am too tired' I said I figured as much. In the morning I woke up late, about the same time as her, and she reached over to stroke my chest. We talked a bit and she continued to do other things to turn me on so I reciprocated. After a bit, I said I know you need to pee, so before we go any further let's both get that out of the way which we did. We got back in bed and continued stroking each other. I went down to eat her as she continued to masturbate me with her bullet vibe. Finally she got me so worked up that I came on her chest, I then reached up and grabbed her vibe and continued to eat her with my thumb in her pussy and the vibe on her clit and after a few more minutes, she came hard and I kept licking till she pushed me away. The main frustrating part of the morning was that she barely let me touch her tits which I not only paid for her boob job but also for the tit tattoos that she got last year. Although it was a bit unusual in that we did not fuck, it was a good overall experience. | ||
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Saturday, September 6, 2014, 12:34:34 PM- Last Night | ||
Wellllll - Last night The Ex finally got back to the house about 10:30 and then wanted to sit and play on FB, after about 30 minutes of that I told her I was going to bed and that if she wanted anything as far as sex, it was time to follow me. After a few minutes, she did follow me upstairs and then decides she wants to sit and talk! Well SHIT! This may as well have been a night with The Wife! So after about 30 minutes of this, I finally convince her to get undressed and quit talking. She did and I spent the next 15 minutes or so alternating between the left and the right tit while slowly fingering her ever so wet pussy. After a bit, she was grabbing my head and moaning louder and louder (She may have had one or 2 small orgasms) she finally said she wanted me 'down there' to eat her which I gladly did for another 10 - 15 minutes before she tried to squeeze my head between her thighs as she came again at which point I pulled on a condom and fucked her (I was actually thankful for the condom as I was so worked up from getting her off, that if it were not for the condom, I would have cum immediately. Despite the 20 - 30 minutes of 'talk' it really was a good fuck session with her. All that being said, I am *sort of* glad The Wife is coming home today and I am wondering how things will be. | ||
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Saturday, September 6, 2014, 2:57:24 AM- Talking With The Ex | ||||||
This evening I was talking with The Ex while driving and she was talking about her ongoing meetings with her Rabbi and the fact that since we got a divorce in the courts but not thru a rabbi, that in a strange way, we are still married (NOT) and that the strictest view of Judaism allows multiple wives (I did not know that). Anyway, apparently she had been having some issues with us still sleeping together and this revelation assisted in alleviating those issues. I am not sure that any of her revelations make any difference to me, but if it makes her feel better about us still having sex then I am good with it. | ||||||
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Friday, September 5, 2014, 10:43:51 PM- Tonight | ||
Marks 9 days that The Ex has stayed with me and I have not killed her yet (lol). It IS stressful having her around but sometimes worth it. We have only fucked one time, but I am hopeful that we will have a long, lazy enjoyable fuck session tonight. The Wife returns tomorrow evening and she has been texting me about how much she misses me, wellll - we will see just how much she missed me and if there is any interest in sex. Probably not tomorrow night as she will have been on a plane for about 14 hours and is bound to be worn out, but maybe Sunday AM. Stay tuned for updates. | ||
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