TNBuilder's Blog - page 22

(I hope)
Well, as usual she (The Ex) got distracted and did not make it but she said she wants to try again for Thursday so we will see.

The Ex said that she really wants to fuck (not her real words - I do not think she would say fuck) and that she will come by this afternoon. ..... I took one of my little pills to make sure that I can perform for her and we will see. ......

Well, it was not without sex, just not as much as I had hoped. We went from the US to Europe, so long flight. Second night was a quickie so, ok, we had been walking and taking a tour all day and were a bit tired. A couple nights later, we were in a different hotel with a more 'private' room where The Wife felt more comfortable and we had an extended session where The Wife came at least 2 or 3 times loudly. after that, nothing (partially because I ended up getting sick) One more time when we got home.

Well, headed on a well deserved 2 week vacation today so I probably will not be online much. Se you all in a couple of weeks.
Hoping for some Well Deserved sex during said vacation, but not sure how The Wife will be.

This past weekend, I had to work both Saturday and Sunday. When we were together, The Wife kept making sexual innuendos especially Sunday when wee worked together at a charity tasting event. I made a Chocolate Bread Pudding with Rum sauce and one other item. she kept making suggestive statements about how we could use the leftover rum sauce and I was all in for that. Well ... of course when we got home no go. Monday morning,we get up and she says 'no time for that' so I am thinking maybe Monday evening - nope, and nothing Tuesday. Well, Wednesday morning, I sort of decided that I was not taking NO for an answer (not forcing her, just being persistent) and we did have a quickie this morning, fucked for a couple minutes, she sucked me, then we fucked to a finish. I do prefer more foreplay and time, but it is what it is.

We went out to Outback with friends for dinner and after getting home and watching the late news went to bed as usual. I was truly not expecting anything at all - figured life as usual. We,, The Wife comes to bed and starts off talking about that she is sorry that she is keeping her shirt on my response is that I know that you keep it on because your boobs get in the way when you try to sleep (honestly a bit snarky). Well, next thing I know she is getting frisky and we end up fooling around and then fucking for about 30-45 minutes (I know the time because I had the sleep timer on the TV) As best as I could tell, she had 2 or 3 maybe 4 orgasms, I came once and she sucked me after we had fucked. I was not really in the mood to eat her and that is not a deal breaker with her anyway.
This is the kind of surprise I can get with.

Well, today is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am being nice and taking The Wife out to dinner with a few of our friends. I wish I could expect to come home for some loving, but I highly doubt that will happen.

Here I was thinking I would try (sort of) to get things going this weekend and of course, Saturday morning she wakes up looking for tampons, so that would be a Gigantic NO! Well, there go the plans and thoughts for our anniversary this week.
Oh Well ~ I probably should not really expect anything else.

Last weekend I had a dream that The Wife and I were driving 'someplace' not really sure where or in what vehicle. Anyway, suddenly I was aware that there was a cute youngish girl sitting next to me in the back seat and she was stripping and started masturbating her bare pussy. I sort of asked The Wife if I could help her and she indicated yes. I believe I masturbated her a bit but that was all. Now, here is where it gets a bit weird .... At first I thought the girl was the young lady that works with me, but yesterday I was having breakfast with The Ex and she had a sexual dream about me (which is SUPER unusual) so perhaps the person that I was dreaming about was the younger version of The Ex since we have known each other for about 40 years now. All in all, just an odd dream.

After moaning on here about lack of attention from The Wife yesterday I got a surprise. First a bit of back story ... She got home early from her office and had to drive me around a bit to run errands and pick up diner. We got back, made dinner and she almost immediately fell asleep on the sofa. Finally around 10:30 as usual, we went off to bed. She gets into bed (remember she is on her period) reaches over and starts to stroke my dick. My response is why? we cannot do anything! She says well, it feels good. I say, i agree, but it is simply teasing me since it cannot lead anywhere. well, making along story short, she ends up continuing to play with me and seems to come to the realization that she can please me so I end up playing with and sucking on her tits and she gives me head and in the end I jerk off onto her tits. Even after that is done, we keep playing with each other for about 45 minutes. Overall, an interesting evening. I guess I will see if this repeats any time soon.