TNBuilder's Blog - page 23

After moaning on here about lack of attention from The Wife yesterday I got a surprise. First a bit of back story ... She got home early from her office and had to drive me around a bit to run errands and pick up diner. We got back, made dinner and she almost immediately fell asleep on the sofa. Finally around 10:30 as usual, we went off to bed. She gets into bed (remember she is on her period) reaches over and starts to stroke my dick. My response is why? we cannot do anything! She says well, it feels good. I say, i agree, but it is simply teasing me since it cannot lead anywhere. well, making along story short, she ends up continuing to play with me and seems to come to the realization that she can please me so I end up playing with and sucking on her tits and she gives me head and in the end I jerk off onto her tits. Even after that is done, we keep playing with each other for about 45 minutes. Overall, an interesting evening. I guess I will see if this repeats any time soon.

The Wife came out from the bedroom yesterday talking about searching for a tampon, so I can be assured that there will be no sex for the next week as well.

No, not for me! The Wife finally went to the Dr. this morning and turns out she has a virus! Said she will be on meds for about 4 weeks. Well that explains a lot (sort of0. At least she has been diagnosed and will get better. I just cannot help but wonder Why the FUCK she would not listen to me and go before we went on vacation.

well, I had sort of hoped that we might fuck before we packed up yesterday, but no luck. I also sort of hoped that we might have a chance at bedtime last night where I started rubbing her pussy but she just went to sleep.

Well The Wife and I went on a short vacation and I hoped that since we were without family on this one, there would be sex involved. A bit of background, she has had a post nasal drip thing going on for about 2 weeks, so I told her last weekend to go get a 'sinus cocktail' shot which she did not do so she now snores like a freight train to the point that if I want to sleep I have to go to another room. Guess where I have been sleeping on our vacation - on the sofa. Pointed out to her how wrong this is and she complained that she did not have time for and could not afford the shot. I TOLD HER I WOULD PAY FOR IT!

I am so frustrated!

Spent lots of money on this expecting it to be somewhat romantic but no dice. We have enjoyed touring Chicago and the weather was really amazing as was the food but the personal relationship time is lacking.

Just always excuses from her on why she did not do something and why things cannot change.

Just needed to vent - hope everyone had a good weekend !

So yesterday The Wife comes out in just bra and panties (which she has showed me before) and asks how they look. My response is that they look quite nice but would look even better off of her. I go over and give her a kiss and slide my hand into the panties and start stroking her slit. I keep doing this and manage to push the panties down her legs. Her response was that if I kept this up perhaps we are not going out shopping (but with the attitude that she really wanted to get going and leave) I gave up and she got dressed. I was hoping that there would be a later opportunity, but no such luck. We got home and she was immediately busy with whatever and as usual would not go to bed before the late news had been watched.

On a slightly different note, I saw a reddit post with a man who got tired of his wife pushing him away and so he developed a spreadhseet to track the lack of willingness on her part. Google it, it is funny in an ironic sort of way.

Well, as I read over my blog from the past few months, I realize that I am averaging once a month fucking The Wife at this point. go back a few years when she realized that I was fucking The Ex and we were fucking at least 3 or 4 times a month (I would like even more than that), Unfortunately, unless I push things a bit nothing would happen. It has now been about 3 weeks since the last quickie. We are going on vacation next week for a few days, so we will see if that creates opportunity. Unfortunately, the last vacation we took, nothing happened at all even though we had more privacy than usual.
As far as The Ex, she stays busy and cannot seem to make time to catch up with me even for work when she always needs the money.

Well, woke up early this morning because I had to pee, but went back to bed to try and get an extra hour of rest. Ended up waking up when The Wifes alarm went off and she did not get right out of bed, actually she rolled over and started cuddling with me which was a surprise. After a few minutes of sort of 'nothing' I simply reached and moved her hand to my dick which started things moving on a bit. After a few more minutes, we did end up fucking. a bit of a quickie and as I have said before, I prefer more foreplay, but I will have to get what I can get.
The Ex is supposed to come over Friday morning for about 45 minutes .... we will see

I have had to get up super early for work most of this week, so no chance to fuck The Wife in teh AM, and she falls asleep as soon as her head hits the pillow at night. Thought I might have the opportunity this morning, but - NOPE - .
Spoke with The Ex yesterday and she said she would try to come over for us to fuck this morning, but she should have been here about 10 minutes ago and I have to shower and get tires for my truck and then off to work so I cannot wait (and she has to get to work anyway)

Well, i am off to shower and get my day started - Not working this weekend which is unusual, so we will see how things go with The Wife although I am not holding my breath.

Well, after a few 'false starts' where The Wife did not feel that we had enough time, we did squeeze in a quickie this morning.
I guess it is better than nothing.